“A New Commandment”

John 13:31-35

Maundy Thursday Homily 2007

 

The title of this past Sunday’s sermon was “Steadfast Love,” referring, of course, to the steadfast love of God.  This steadfast love is described and portrayed in Scripture in a wide variety of ways.  It is the passionate-to-the-point-of-jealousy kind of love described by God himself in the Second Commandment.  It is the long-suffering, ever-forgiving, never-giving-up-on kind of love demonstrated by Hosea in his relationship with his grossly unfaithful wife Gomer. 

It is the throw-propriety-to-the-winds-my-boy-came-home love showered on that prodigal son in the parable.  It is the love the risen Lord showed to a guilt-ridden disciple named Peter on a beach in Galilee.  It is the love described by the Apostle Paul in I Corinthians 13: patient, kind, humble, forgiving, and faithful.  It is a fruit of the Spirit made manifest in the life of true followers of Jesus, that love by which others can tell that we are Christians.

On that original Maundy Thursday, at that Passover Dinner in an upper room, Jesus had some powerful words for his disciples, “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another.  Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another.  By this everyone will know that you are my disciples…”   He wasn’t simply asking them to love one another.  Nor was he merely suggesting that they do so.  He wasn’t making such love optional.  He was gently but firmly commanding them to love one another.

Not always like each other.  Not always agree with each other.  Not always approve of each other’s behavior.  Love each other with a Christ-like, steadfast love that would enable them support each other, pray for each other, serve each other, and when necessary, make sacrifices for each other.  Not because any of them deserved such support, prayer, service, or sacrifice, but because they were fellow followers of Jesus. 

The service tonight focuses, as it should, on the steadfast love of God made manifest in Jesus Christ.  “See, from his head, his hands, his feet; sorrow and love flow mingled down.”  “Upon that cross of Jesus mine eye can sometimes see the very dying form of One who suffered there for me.”  Those brief lines from two of tonight’s hymns describe in ultimate terms the steadfast love of God.  He died so that we might live.  He suffered hell itself in our place.  By way of his steadfast love, in the words of a U2 song, Jesus Christ, God Incarnate “conquered the great divide.”   

We’re going to joyfully remember, celebrate, and in a way reenact that love as we take Communion.  We‘re going to solemnly ponder that love as we move through the Scripture readings of Tenebrae.  As the lights dim and the shadows deepen we will become more deeply aware of our Lord’s suffering on our behalf.  And unless our hearts are thoroughly hardened, when we leave here tonight we will know just how much we are loved by our Savior God.

We will also know something else.  We will know something about the kind of steadfast love we are to show one another.  What might that look like?  Not some kind of flowers-in-our-hair, peace-sign-flashing, candy hearts, and teddy bear romanticism.  Not some ooey-gooey, let’s-all-stand-in-a-circle-and-sing-kum-ba-ya, church camp sort of sentimentalism.  Not some everlasting seashells and balloons experience.  Not anything resembling what this world calls love.

The kind of love our Lord has commanded us to show one another is the love we show by kneeling in prayer with a brother or sister with whom just a few moments earlier we had been arguing at a Session meeting.  It’s the love we show by sitting through the night in some hospital room with a fellow believer – or non-believer – as he or she watches the life of a loved one slowly fade away.  It’s the love we show by dragging ourselves away from watching our favorite team and going out in the rain to have a cup of coffee with a friend whose world is falling apart.  It’s the love we show whenever we forgive or reconcile with someone.  Sometimes it’s tough love.  Sometimes it’s hard love.  Always it’s in some form or another a sacrificial love.  Never is it an easy or convenient kind of love.

The bad news is that even on those rare occasions when we’re living up to our highest levels of discipleship we are going to fail to love one another as our Lord commanded.  The good news is that our Lord never stops loving us.  And quite often in this fallible gathering of people that we call the Body of Christ that person to whom we have been unloving will still find a way to love us.  Amen.